girl help
so i have this girl that always gives me advice. but she is being slow. why is she being so slow??
Dear Girl Help,
A collective message from theannoyingtruth:
It seems to us that you might suffer from what we call “impatience”. Our advice is to stfu and wait. Remember: Patience is a virtue, virtue is a grace put it all together and we won’t fuck up your face.
Love,
The Annoying Truth
How do you Know??
How do you know when a crush is more than a crush??
Advicer B: More than a crush? Like obsessive you need to stop? Or holy shit you might have accimadentally fallen in love?
The break up.
I broke up with my boyfriend of a year about a month ago. I was so unhappy, and I really thought it through. He wouldn’t accept it at first which made me want to get out more. When I finally got him to let go, he hates my guts. I actually still wanted to be friends, especially since we were good friends throughout high school. Now a month later, I not only miss talking to him, but I am starting to second guess my decision.
Advicer B: The thing about dating your friends is that while the relationship lasts, it’s great. You have someone who really knows you, someone you can talk to, someone you’re comfortable with. And if it’s a bad break-up (and it sounds like it was) you’re losing more than a boyfriend (imho).
Wanting to get back with your ex is a common thing But if you really took your time and though it through like you say, and on top of that his wanting to keep you together made you feel only stronger about this descision, then it’s probably for the best. While staying friends with your ex is not unheard of (and I can’t speak to the rarity or commoness of it), it’s very difficult to try and maintain a platonic relationship you were previously involved with. You can try and keep a realtionship with him but I would suggest that you try and give him some space and let him get used to the idea of you maintaining a friendship. If it doesnt work out, don’t feel too disappointed or bad about youself in any way, some people aren’t good at break ups. And you can’t begrudge a dumpee some resentment, it sucks to be dumped.:)
Advicer A: Don’t second guess yourself because you know deep-down it was the right thing to do. Even if you did wind up back with him, the same thing tends to happen again in the relationship, so you would want out again. You may at some point be able to have a relationship with him again as a friend or you may not. I will take time though before you know if that friendship will ever happen again.
So many people these day say that the word love is thrown around too much and it shouldn’t be taken for granted. However, I believe that it most definitely should be, as it is the greatest gift bestowed upon us by God (or whomever you believe in). There is absolutely nothing wrong with finding and acknowledging the little things in life that fill you up with a joy called love. Once you break down the fears and hesitations society has instilled in us, you will finally be free to take in the love that the world around you has to offer. Laugh, smile, hug, meditate, and before you know it, you’re rarely stressed, you’re healthier, and people can’t help but be attracted to your positive aura. You will be improving the world by spreading love- one smile at a time. Who knows? You may even save someone’s life by hugging them when they were ready to give up on themselves. Your life will change as well, but only for the better because you will have finally found peace within yourself.
I love you all!
~Guruyana (Guest Advicer)~
